It’s happened: you got The Tower when asking about your current situation.
Surely this means the worst?
Actually, no. You’re in luck because you have free will! This means that you can change the outcome of your future with any changes you make.
So you got The Tower when asking about your relationship. If ending the relationship is what you really want, then do nothing. If the relationship means a lot to you: change. Stop assuming, start asking.
The tarot is only a tool. You are the one who wields it.